Kelly Clarkson Says It’s ‘Really Crucial’ to Instill Self-Esteem in Her Kids: ‘Always Stand Up for Yourself’

Kelly Clarkson keeps it “very real” with all 4 of her kids, generally 3-year-old daughter River Rose, who usually started school.

Though she shares some-more in-depth conversations about self-respect and certainty with her comparison children (husband Brandon Blackstock’s son Seth and daughter Savannah), a singer, who is also mom to 18-month-old son Remington Alexander, has been scheming her toddler for a genuine world.

“I said, ‘You tell mommy if somebody does anything inappropriate. You mount adult for yourself,’” Clarkson told PEOPLE at Variety‘s Power of Women event.

“Even from a immature age, we consider we should teach that people, your children, should always mount adult for themselves or pronounce out when something is wrong,” a star emphasized.

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Clarkson also combined that she’s training River Rose to demeanour out for others. “Not usually for them, what’s function to them, though maybe somebody in a category who we notice,” she said.

Concluding, “I consider if we start it during that immature age, and we start frame people and flourishing to these unequivocally towering people that assistance rouse society. It’s a unequivocally essential time when we have children right now.”

Also during a same event, Clarkson suggested she has a sum lady vanquish on singer Gal Gadot.

“I am vehement … we usually saw her. we can’t. She’s Wonder Woman!” she pronounced her speech, adding, “I feel like that’s what we were meant to demeanour like. … It’s good to have this bold, womanlike figure for your girl.”