Jenna Dewan Tatum’s Daughter Everly Has a ‘Strong Sense of Self’: ‘I Try and Teach Her to Be an Individual’

Jenna Dewan Tatum is really most wakeful of a fact that it’s most harder to be a immature lady these days.

“There [are] really apprehensions we have about lifting a child in a new amicable media day and age. There’s no beam book,” she told PEOPLE Thursday during a New York Fashion Week Young Living Essential Oils event. “We’re starting to see now how that’s inspiring immature people.”

While her daughter Everly is usually 4, unfortunately it won’t be prolonged before she’s faced with a oppressive critics of a world, generally being in a open eye. But don’t worry — a Young Living Guest Scent Curator and Danskin designer has a devise in place.

“Starting early and starting to build her confidence in her loyal authenticity and herself is important,” the World of Dance host says of how she teaches Everly about self esteem. “Because afterwards when a influences come in that will try and tell her, ‘You’re not great’ and ‘You’re not amazing,’ she’ll have that clever clarity of reminding.”

Explains Dewan Tatum, 36, who relatives Everly alongside father Channing Tatum, “I try and learn her to be an particular and find things she’s good during … and facilitating these things so her certainty builds during a immature age.”

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Luckily, it seems the Step Up alum‘s daughter — who loves swimming and gymnastics — is already flattering strong. “She’s really artistic and has a really clever clarity of self,” Dewan Tatum praises.

Everly’s celebrity comes by in her style, like the really artistic makeup job she did on her mom progressing this week and a outfit she wore out with father Tatum recently: a pinkish and frilly Disney Princess dress.

“She’s equally princessy and tomboy,” Dewan Tatum explains. “We went by a proviso when she usually wore purple and afterwards we went by a proviso when she usually wore princess dresses. we was only happy to get her out of pajamas and demonstrate herself.”

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And a small lady takes after her mom in her appreciation of essential oils. “I use them on Everly,” a singer admits. “I use lavender a lot on her since she’s really active.”

“I call her a really active 4-year-old,” she adds, laughing. “Calming her down before bed is really important.”

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Dewan Tatum also uses Young Living’s R.C. oil and Thieves oil on Everly often, since “she’s always entrance behind from preschool with a million germs, so it’s essential. They’re totally naturally antibacterial.”

Everly favors Young Living’s rolling applicators. “She likes a roller lavender that’s called Tranquil,” says Dewan Tatum. “She’s like, ‘Mommy, do a smiley face.’ And we [draw a smiley face with it] on her feet.”

Continues a star, “Sometimes we forget, and she’s like, ‘You forgot to put a oils on my feet.’ Could be interference for bed, also could be since she likes it. But we do it.”