Brittany Kerr Aldean Details IVF ‘Roller Coaster’ — and Says She and Jason Considered Surrogacy

Welcoming her son Memphis wasn’t a candid routine for Brittany Kerr Aldean.

The lifestyle blogger and makeup artist non-stop adult this week about how she and father Jason Aldean struggled to get profound for a year and a half before a contingent arrival of their initial child together on Dec. 1, by a assistance of in vitro fertilization.

“It was a longest process,” a 30-year-old pronounced on an part of a Babes and Babies podcast. “It was such a drum coaster and we finished up, by it all, carrying endometriosis. After a year and a half of trying, they’re finally like, ‘We consider you competence have endometriosis.’ I’m like, ‘Uh … after all that, are we teasing me?’ ”

“Then we had to go and have a procession finished called a laparascopy, that is fundamentally where they go in and they check for endometriosis or any cysts or anything,” she added. “I had theatre 2, out of theatre 4. So they got absolved of that, and afterwards we ended adult removing pregnant.”

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Jason and Brittany Kerr Aldean with son Memphis

Jason and Brittany Kerr Aldean with son Memphis

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“The IVF was substantially harder than a tangible pregnancy, for me, since it was only such a drum coaster and so difficult,” laments Kerr Aldean. “It’s such high highs and such low lows, and no one unequivocally knows that you’re going by it all so we have to only put on a diversion face and fake that you’re not giving yourself shots in your stomach each day, all day.”

“We would do a transfer, that is fundamentally where they would make an embryo, and afterwards it wouldn’t take. So for a 10-day period, [you] think, ‘Oh, we consider we competence be pregnant,’ ” she explains. “They give we a blood exam during a finish of a 10-day duration and you’re not.”

“So in your mind, it’s roughly as though you’ve had a small bit of a miscarriage, since we design to be profound and afterwards you’re not,” Kerr Aldean says. “And that happened to us mixed times. So afterwards when we finally finished adult removing pregnant, it was a many sparkling thing ever since we had attempted for so long.”

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The new mom reveals that Memphis was a couple’s final embryo, and that they had considered a gestational carrier before she finally found out she was pregnant.

“I was considering a surrogate,” she explains. “We were meditative about all a options, that is unhappy since we wish to be means to lift your possess child, though afterwards you’re thinking, ‘What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I? Why is it not implanting? we don’t understand.’ ”

Jason Aldean and family

Jason Aldean and family

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While Memphis is a initial child a integrate shares, Jason, 41, is also a father to dual daughters from a prior marriage: Kendyl, 10, and Keeley, 14. But that doesn’t meant they’re indispensably finished adding to their family.

“We wish substantially only one more, since he has dual children already, and afterwards we had him, so we feel like 4 is a lot,” Brittany says of her husband. “But we wish to try again, only so that Memphis has a crony that’s tighten to his age.”

“The earlier a better,” she continues of when they will start perplexing again. “You’re already doing a diaper thing, you’re already doing everything. Why don’t we only hit it out instead of removing out of that time frame, and afterwards carrying to start all over again?”